We all need to keep “fresh” and grow.
But not every attempt at a change is successful. Some are, of course, failures.
Failure is the next step towards success. Those “blips” I consider “learning events” when we take the time to reflect and learn from the situation.
You can change, too.
Read MoreLife is well, rather… stuck?
Business not going well? Or something else?
You have all your ducks in a row, but something seems to be stopping you? Is something intangible slowing down your business? Maybe you have inner conflicts with yourself that need addressing so you can start moving forward again.
A while ago week I read a wonderful book by negotiation expert Professor Dr. William Ury of Harvard Business School called Getting to Yes with Yourself and I found some treasures to help us out of those stuck places in business and in life.
Read MoreWhen you are triaging- remember to plan for the two most important things:
THE MOST IMPORTANT things that are not urgent
AND
BREAKS
What about you?
What are the MOST IMPORTANT things that are not urgent for you?
Maybe it is about finishing a book you need to read for work or study.
How do you plan for you MOST IMPORTANT items on your list? Do you block out certain times in the day/week/month that are sacred for these projects?
What about breaks – whether half-days, days, a mini-vacation, or a real one, they should also be scheduled and sacred.
Where can you go and what do you do to find rest and restoration?
Read MoreI have some very good ideas for you to stay focuses when everyone is “relaxing” around you.
You and I need to focus, even in the summer.
We all need an easy way to keep on track when we are trying to focus.
Here are some tips:
REMEMBER TO DO ONLY THE MOST IMPORTANT (& urgent) things- things that will make a difference in one, two or five years. AND…
Read MoreStart slowly, with lowered expectations
Do not plan a long first day or two, but slowly set and get into your list of “to-dos”; don’t expect to get finished with your list, but try to focus on one or two key goals for the first few days. Remember to reacquaint yourself with the team, the space, and the food, too, especially if you have been away for a long time or working (mostly) remotely. Freshen up your workspace and make it “your own” once again.
Read MoreI don’t know if you are having the same issue, but…
Suddenly, my next two weeks are really full!
How did that happen? I thought I was “off” for the month! I only begin correcting exams at the end of the month. But I have a guest teaching “week” this week with a focus on leadership and team development, plus an important funeral of a good friend, so now this week is much fuller than expected. Next week looks about the same because of birthdays and such.
And that makes me mostly happy. I get to teach something I love; I will certainly not be bored - and the funeral will bring closure for many of us who loved Helen.
The How of productivity without overwhelm:
How do I keep from feeling overwhelmed, even if the activities are (mostly) great?
I use a couple of coaching tools on myself.
One is the Eisenhower Matrix (some call it the 4 Ds of time management; you can look up both)
Another is writing everything down- on the family calendar, on my electronic calendar, writing it in my to-do journal…
These two activities help me to separate the important from the urgent, and to keep everything “together” so it gets done in as calm a manner as possible.
Read MoreIn a crisis we can acknowledge the fear (which is NORMAL), lean in, decide what you can control, make a plan and be as ready as you can be
Read MoreSome call it Pivot, others call it reinvention.
It’s always a (big) change.
It could be that a change of career or changing your business is needed.
Re-inventing Yourself - a necessity for many, especially for those over 50, but it’s vital for others, too, such as stay-at-home parents who are re-entering the job market and for those who discover that what they have trained for/studied for is no longer a need.
Read MoreWhen it comes to start-ups, your BRAND is really key, and you need to establish it clearly.
Branding is key to a new business and to continuing onwards and upwards as an established enterprise. Keep it clear and keep it in front of your potential customers and clients.
But what is branding and how do I go about it as a start-up? First you need a name (or name of the product), then a logo, website, and URL. There are more steps, but that is the very beginning.
Then you need to know why you are even doing this (and the answer is NOT to make money!). sometimes this is called a “mission statement”.
The product and its purpose: know your WHY and your USP
Read MoreI am overwhelmed today.
Maybe you are overwhelmed, too?
Take care of yourself, body, mind and soul!
First acknowledge the emotion.
Then watch your actions and try to move from unhealthy to healthier responses.
Watch yourself for binging of any kind (including Netflix)
Then reach out to your “people”
Or reach out and help others.
Helping is (almost always) good for us.
Get help from professionals, especially if you are experiencing symptoms of PTSD - see the list at the very end of the blog from Harry Hoffmann.
Finally, watch yourself and your activities.
Set some boundaries, especially when it comes to the “news”.
Read MoreSpring is for new things, new growth and good news!
Are you doing new things? What is your plan for the spring and for the rest of the year?What are your goals – for now, for the spring and for the year?
First, I have updated my webpage (check it out: www.jehle-coaching.com ) and my Goggle Business Page (if you don’t have one, contact me, ASAP!). It’s time for an update and a lot has been happening with my business, both with possibilities for contact (COVID)-wise and what training I have been having and what I can offer.
Also, that weekend away reminded me of what is most important. I need to make time for solitude, reflection AND for creativity.
Read MoreCommunity is my “word” for 2022, and that – and the review of my calendar has made me realize it is time to get together with people again, especially people who make me happy.
That is just what I did this morning: coffee with an “old” friend. It did my soul good!
Last week – here in Switzerland – the COVID doors “opened up” even more to meeting people in person and I am very glad.
Why? – because it is healthy for us to have contact with other people, with a variety of people, people who give is hope and joy and energy.
Read MoreIt is almost February and perhaps you and I should take some time for a reflective check-up. It is important to regularly reflect upon our goals and check our progress to make changes and keep on your chosen course.
First you must ask yourself questions:
· What are my goals (yearly and quarterly) and where am I at regarding them right now? What changes need to be made to reach those goals, or do I need to re-work the goals?
· How am I doing with my work and personal relationships? Where do I need to change here?
· How am I doing with boundaries? Do I have enough time and energy to get my work done and have healthy relationships?
· What am I doing daily for me, for my health and well-being?
· How has my attitude been lately? Do I need an adjustment in attitude? How can that be best achieved?
Let’s look at a few of these topics for the next part of this blog, namely boundaries and “me time”.
Read MoreLeadership is caring
· Care for yourself first
· So you can care for “your people”
· And then care for the purpose of and for the organization/group
· With care-full character
What that means, in specific, is that you first need to care for yourself because if you don’t you might just burn out and not be able to care for anything anymore. Take good care of your body mind and spirit so you can, as a friend once said to me, “help the other person put on their oxygen mask.” Maybe you know the analogy: in an airplane the fight attendant says we should put on our oxygen masks first before helping other. This means we are connected to what we need to continue to care for others.
Read MoreTime management is key to getting the important things done.
We need to find ways to CARVE out time for the important things and for reflection and Rest for 2022.
Look at your calendar and make that “cut” and CARVE out the time.
Then when you are in your reflection day (or at least half-day per month), decide what is really important and CARVE out time for that one or two items for the next month.
Then reflect again at another pre-planned date. And keep those times holy.
Read MoreThe How of productivity without overwhelm:
How do I keep from feeling overwhelmed, even if the activities are mostly great?
I use a couple of coaching tools on myself. One is the Eisenhower Matrix and one is writing everything down with visualization - on the family calendar, on my electronic calendar, writing it in my to-do journal…
Read MoreMy wish for you is that you have MORE of what really counts in this season!
What’s happened for me and Jehle Coaching:
I have been working on my member care and debriefing skills for the past year as well as keeping up my coaching and supervision skills (including conflict resolution and team and group dynamics) with mostly online but also in-person courses.
Read MoreAs we move towards 2022, I am doing some reflection. It helps to bring about change.
I’m reflecting on my situation and accepting for it is, and then doing what I can about it.
Read MoreMerry Christmas from Jehle Coaching! With a time of personal reflection for you at the end.
2021 has been full and a profitable year for me and for Jehle Coaching.
I hope your year has also been profitable, as well.
Read MoreWhat are you reading?
What are you learning?
I have a friend who regularly greets her friends with the question, “What are you reading?”
This is one of my favorite questions because it assumes that the person is a learner and a reader.
I think we should be both. So, the second question that goes with the first is “What are you learning?”
That really leads to pre-questions:
· Why are you reading these books?
· What books are next in line?
· What are your goals?
· What books and articles are you reading that lead you to your goals?
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